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Complaint, is all we have ever. From things,from people, from circumstances. We always crave if we could alter them. We always blame them.
Instead of moulding ourselves according to the situation, we find faults in what is going on.We want things to be, according to our comforts, desires and suitability. And we curse them if it is not so, and in the process, we acquire negative attitude and end up diminishing our efficiency and passion in the field, doing things coercively & in a dull manner.
What the most interesting part is, we never realise this. We consider ourselves as supreme. We never try to understand as to why a particular thing is being shaped that way,rather we apply our own statistics and logics for the thing to take shape the desired way.
For an instance, if I've semester exams in the mid of blazing May, after a month of preparation leaves, I would curse the university for conducting them in such roasting weather,amid loo, giving externals around 12:00 in the noon, writing exam during the hot day time,and what not! So, I'd think that they should have had preponed or the timings should have had to be around early morning etc. I'll form my own set of views, and reckon how things would be if they were that way. What happens ultimately is, half of my productive time gets wasted in cursing & disappointment .I end up studying lesser!
This is exactly the point, the matter we must throw light upon. Why do we want things to happen in our way? Why do we not just accept them as they are, trying to understand the perception of the other.
This very philosophy does not just imply on situations, but also thoughts. We impose our thoughts on people.
Why are we such sturdy?Why are we not adaptable to changes? Why are our thoughts less flexible?We must give it a thought, certainly. And change the way we take things. We need to tilt the angle how we conceive our perceptions to a little degree. And in no time,you'll see, how the normal, tedious everyday turn up to be cheerful. How events become exciting. Everything becomes honky dory. Do not resist, let yourself flow. A small advice, yet can change big!
Complaint, is all we have ever. From things,from people, from circumstances. We always crave if we could alter them. We always blame them.
Instead of moulding ourselves according to the situation, we find faults in what is going on.We want things to be, according to our comforts, desires and suitability. And we curse them if it is not so, and in the process, we acquire negative attitude and end up diminishing our efficiency and passion in the field, doing things coercively & in a dull manner.
What the most interesting part is, we never realise this. We consider ourselves as supreme. We never try to understand as to why a particular thing is being shaped that way,rather we apply our own statistics and logics for the thing to take shape the desired way.
For an instance, if I've semester exams in the mid of blazing May, after a month of preparation leaves, I would curse the university for conducting them in such roasting weather,amid loo, giving externals around 12:00 in the noon, writing exam during the hot day time,and what not! So, I'd think that they should have had preponed or the timings should have had to be around early morning etc. I'll form my own set of views, and reckon how things would be if they were that way. What happens ultimately is, half of my productive time gets wasted in cursing & disappointment .I end up studying lesser!
This is exactly the point, the matter we must throw light upon. Why do we want things to happen in our way? Why do we not just accept them as they are, trying to understand the perception of the other.
This very philosophy does not just imply on situations, but also thoughts. We impose our thoughts on people.
Why are we such sturdy?Why are we not adaptable to changes? Why are our thoughts less flexible?We must give it a thought, certainly. And change the way we take things. We need to tilt the angle how we conceive our perceptions to a little degree. And in no time,you'll see, how the normal, tedious everyday turn up to be cheerful. How events become exciting. Everything becomes honky dory. Do not resist, let yourself flow. A small advice, yet can change big!
