SPIRAL LIFE!

BLOG #4

Life; it's concept amazes me more than anything else's. It seems alike a relay exam.

Face situations, deal with them, pass through the outcomes, learn from the mistakes & 'go throughs', and then again, you face a new set of circumstances, you deal with them applying previously gained lessons, move forward to enter another world of situations. In short, life is all about learning from the experiences and applying them to the coming ones.

So basically, we are tracing a SPIRAL. That is how it's lived. This is the basic funda of living. 'LEARN AND MOVE ON.' But more often, we the naive players are incapable to absorb the hidden lessons this universe teaches us. We end up tracing a CIRCLE! This is where we get lagged behind. Rather than learning from the hurdles, we get stuck into them and keep regretting to why a certain thing happened that way. We wail around, & keep cursing our fate, our previous decisions which eventually led us to fall into the current situation.

As a matter of fact, it is absolutely impossible to undo the done in reality, unlike those in the electronic logic devices. So to repent upon is surely no way out. Remorse will only make you feel more depressed, defeated. So instead, stud the points where you went wrong, in your brain, to not repeat them ever.

Remember, the cosmo we live in, is in a constant flow. The time, the things, the objects are changing, moving, flowing! Rather than resisting, we too must flow, but wisely. Resisting will only make you feel the troubles more.

Don't let an obstacle become a hindering stone, make it instead, the stepping stone to your goal. GROW AS YOU MOVE.

ACTION POINTS (MOOL MANTRAS) :-
-> Analyse, 
-> Observe, 
-> Imply, and 
-> Apply 

Move, learn, move, learn, move. And that is how it is. When wise action replaces remorse, smile replaces hopelessness! This is the art. Art of living.

Do we need someone to complete us?

BLOG #3

Do we really need somebody, to give us our identity? To complete the meaning of our life? To validate our existence?

We have number of friends, family members, childern, our beloved, acquaintances. All these are parts of our life. But we do not realise, how gradually they transmute from 'part' to 'full'! That is, they instead, become our lives! The reason for our existence.
We get dependent on them.Being with them,gives us pleasure, while their absence disheartens us! Similar is true with those we dislike.

So the basic question which emerges is; why do we prioritise people? Why do we give them the very power to affect us in any manner? Why are we crippled without them?

It is noteworhty that,
"KOI APNA NHI, KOI PARAYA NAHIN.
HUM SAB TO VIDHI KE IS NAATYA ME,
NIBHA RAHEIN HAIN KIRDAAR APNE APNE."
(NONE IS OURS, NONE IS AN OUTSIDER,
WE, IN THIS DRAMA OF LIFE,
ARE PLAYING OUR OWN UNIQUE CHARACTERS.)

If we realise these very basic lines into our lives, our lives would be changed. A renewed one. The joy, the anguish, the jealousy, the excitement, the fear, the love,,,,,these all are not brought about by a third person. The cause is but, 'YOU' ! All these feelings are our creations, our thoughts, our illusions.

So, the conclusion what we get is, the bunch of keys to one's life's various phases is in his own hands. We are constantly moving in the path of life. Where we need to act upon is, not render them to those who are passer-by.

Philosopher Sir Henley wrote, "I am the Master of my Fate, I am the Captain of my Soul." Thus, it's we, who are the rulers. We owe the helm of our life's ways.

Gradually, bring into life, this principle. And you'll see how simple everything gets. All mysteries inside your head get deciphered. The nights you spend awaking, mulling over the various 'WHY's of life' reduce their frequency. What you are gifted with then, is peace; which I guess, has become just a theory nowadays, only found in dictionaries & books, not in real!